Banns

Catholic dating, beginning in London

Meet first.
Decide privately.

Banns brings eight Catholic adults together for a small Sunday lunch. You do not browse attendee profiles beforehand. After you meet, a conversation opens only if you both say hello.

Banns

Meet in good company. Connect only after you have genuinely met.

Preparing for invite-only TestFlight

Near London

Sunday lunch

Eight Catholic adults, one shared table and enough time for a real conversation.

12:30 · Vauxhall

Reviewed venue · 8 places · accessibility details before booking

Profiles remain private until attendance is confirmed.

After the gathering

People you met

Only confirmed attendees can appear here.

Clara, 31

Met at Sunday lunch · Vauxhall

“Parish volunteering, long walks and learning to cook properly.”

Two more attendees

You decide privately who to greet.

Mutual hello

You can now talk.

Clara also chose to say hello. Messaging opens only after mutual interest.

Clara

It was lovely meeting you on Sunday.

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How it works

The gathering comes before the profile.

01

Join and verify

Complete age assurance, your profile and private preferences.

02

Request a Sunday lunch place

The planned service offers compatible tables in London after human review.

03

Meet at the table

Profiles remain private. A Banns host welcomes the group.

04

Say hello privately

After attendance, choose whether you want to connect.

Trust by design

People come before profiles.

Private before the gathering

No attendee browsing before the gathering. Exact venue details appear only after a place is confirmed.

Human-reviewed operations

Banns plans gatherings, verifies venues and keeps safety decisions with people.

No paid advantage

No boosts, paid ranking or AI-decided matches. Membership supports the service, not visibility.

Transparent venue costs

Food and venue spending is shown separately and paid directly to the approved venue.

Membership

Pay only when there is a place for you.

Early access and profile creation are free. Membership begins only after Banns accepts your first booking and can offer you a confirmed place.

Choose later

£14.99per month

or £119.99 annually

  • Access to book Banns gatherings
  • Private connections after attendance
  • Identity and profile standards
  • Safety processes and member support

Food and venue spending is paid directly to the venue. No payment is collected when you join early access.

Founding London members

Help fill the first London tables.

London invitations open first. Join from another city and we will use local demand to decide where Banns opens next.

No payment is taken. Confirm your email to join the list. City data © GeoNames, CC BY 4.0.

Does this sound like something you would use?

Joining the list takes an email. This does not — it is anonymous and takes one tap.

Clear answers before you join.

Is Banns operated by the Catholic Church?

No. Banns is operated by AspireVerse Ltd. Parish information is optional and private, and a church is never described as a partner without a documented agreement.

Who runs the gatherings?

Banns Operations plans the first London lunches and provides a non-participating host. Members may suggest ideas, but suggesting an idea does not make somebody a host.

When do I pay?

Only after Banns accepts your first booking and can hold a place for you. Joining early access and creating a profile are free.

When are photographs shown?

Only after Banns confirms that you and another member attended the same gathering.

What if no compatible table is available?

You stay on the London list without being charged. Banns will contact you when a suitable place becomes available.

Can I help with future gatherings?

After confirming early access, you can register interest in future paid gathering-steward roles. It is not a volunteer commitment or job offer.

What happens outside London?

You can join the city waitlist. Banns will use confirmed demand to decide where to open next.

Is Banns live in the App Store?

Not yet. This is early access for an invite-only iOS beta delivered through TestFlight.